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Hey there,

If dating lately feels confusing, exhausting, or even a little ridiculous… you’re not imagining it.

Between the endless swiping, vague texting, and everyone talking about “icks” and “red flags,” it can be hard to know what’s real and what’s just noise.

So, here are a few reminders that might help you feel a little more grounded in your love life this week:

✨ Not every ick is a dealbreaker Sometimes what feels like a turnoff is actually just fear or vulnerability showing up in disguise. I recently wrote about this here: Getting Over the Ick​

✨ It’s okay to move slowly as long as you’re moving You don’t have to rush into deep conversations or give someone your full energy right away. But avoid staying stuck in the talking stage forever. Intentional dating means forward motion.

✨ You don’t need to earn love by overperforming Showing up in your authentic energy, not your “best behavior,” is what creates real attraction. The right person will want the real you.

If you’re ready to start dating in a way that feels more aligned, confident, and grounded in your values, here are some tools and programs that might support you.

Right now, these are the lowest prices they’ve ever been so if something resonates, now’s the time to snag it!

🔹 Men’s Group Coaching Build confidence, improve communication, and learn how to date with intention

🔹 Women’s Group Coaching Reconnect with your feminine energy and stop overgiving in early dating

🔹 5-Day Feminine Energy Workbook Gentle, daily guidance to help you soften, receive, and attract aligned partners

🔹 Dating Profile & Texting Guide Simple, modern guidance to feel more confident online

And if you’re just looking for small nuggets of support day to day, I share free content regularly on all platforms: 📲 @coachingbyvarsha on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube, and LinkedIn​

Dating doesn’t have to feel so overwhelming. You’re not doing it wrong. You just might need a new perspective and a little support.

Rooting for you, always.

— Varsha Dating & Relationship Coach coachingbyvarsha.com​

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