Hi,

I am eager to get your feedback on this!

These are the three types of daters or partners that I see the most often: (which one are you? reply back to this email with with "a", "b" or "c".... or none of the above:)

a- I don't know how and am a bad dater, there is so much more I need to learn before I can get there. When I finally have this dating thing down, I will meet someone great. When I understand this new book on parenting, I will have a better relationship with my partner too. I need to go on a few more dates to really get the experience I need to be good at this. I can't get dates to like me because I'm not comfortable with sex on the first date or good at flirting without giving the wrong impression.

b- I'm good at it but it doesn't stick, every time I set out to do something, it does not last. I don't know what happened, we were going strong for three months and then they called and said they don't want to see me anymore. Again, I set a goal and had a false start and now I am ten steps behind where I was. I get so vulnerable and then it's a crash and burn and I never get to recover before the next one does the same thing to me.

c- There is no one good out there and everyone is out to get me. People I date are broken or heartless and just want flings. If I don't start compromising, no one will marry me and I'll be lonely forever. My partner never gets me and I always have to bend backwards, I'm tough and I can handle it. It's a numbers game, if I just keep going out with people then eventually I have to find the right one, right?

None of the above? What's dating like for you? Reply to this email and let me know.

What's so interesting about these "types" of experiences as a dater or parter is that they keep you limited in a box and keep you in a vicious cycle of how dating goes or how your romantic relationship goes....perhaps this is even how you live in other areas of your life.

*** You are perfect exactly where you are and how you are, right now. ***

*** Your date/partner wants to see the version of you they will get when they are in a relationship with you, not the person who is scared of what first impression mistakes you might make. ***

*** I promise there are amazing people out there for you and amazing qualities in your partner just waiting to be unleashed and discovered more deeply. ***

*** You do not need to compromise. ***

Are you done with being in one pattern and having it never change? I hope so, because there is so much more available and waiting for you in life...including a lovely romantic life.

BTW: I don't mean romantic life in the way fairytales do...what I mean is being able to have the time of your life with your partner on a typical Tuesday night when you're having one of those same dinners you always make and not thinking it to be less than the multi-course new restaurant you went to for "date night". That's what I want for you.

Also, I want to share some of my Client wins recently:

• Quality dates despite the pandemic,
• Engagement,
• Moving in together,
• Introduction of bf/gf to parents/friends/family,
• Lots of new jobs and promotions,
• A new house,
• A new business started,
• Weight-loss,
• Getting out of debt!

(If you are reading this, you know who you are and thank you and love you.)

This year has been a truly magical and I am in awe of my clients and their power, love, grace, wisdom and compassion towards the world.

Can't wait to here from all of you about your choice above,

Varsha

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